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6 Tips for Coparenting When You’re Getting Divorced But Still Living In The Same House

  6 Tips for Coparenting When You’re Getting Divorced But Still Living In The Same House. By  Christina McGhee When it comes to raising children out of two homes post-divorce, it’s expected that co-parents will encounter a host of challenges along the way. However, there’s one divorce challenge that doesn’t get talked about very much, and it happens more often than you think. How to split up while living under one roof. Whether it’s due to COVID, limited financial resources, or staying put temporarily for the kids,  lots of separating parents are having to figure out how to part ways while occupying the same space. Which is why I teamed up with podcasting pro,  Susan Guthrie  host of   the Divorce and Beyond podcast   to talk about what co-parents can do to make the best of what often feels like a less than ideal situation. If you are a parent who has just started this journey or one that has been in it for a while but is looking for support, you can l...
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When You Don’t Think Your Co-parent is a Good Person

  When You Don’t Think Your Co-parent is a Good Person By  Christina McGhee Do you think your co-parent is a good person? If your answer is a resounding “No.” You’re not the first to feel that way. Not even close. If I had a dime for every time this came up, I could take a cruise somewhere tropical, lie on the beach, and sip umbrella drinks for days on end. I talk with parents all the time about  honoring the good  for kids. In a nutshell, that means supporting your children’s positive image of their other parent. Almost on cue, someone always says,   “Yeah, Christina, but what if I don’t think the other parent is a good person?” Fair question and one that deserves an answer. You might be 100% on point about your co-parent’s character. They may have been a lousy spouse, dishonest, short-tempered, selfish, or maybe they just couldn’t follow through with anything to save their life. You probably have plenty of evidence to back your opinion up. They might...

Southside's Top Rated Child Support Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Dating After Divorce: Be Careful How You Tell Your Kids

Dating After Divorce: Be Careful How You Tell Your Kids By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT We all know divorce creates havoc in any family’s life, especially when children are involved. Moving on after divorce can also be challenging. It’s a time to be very gentle, both with yourself as well as with your children. Chances are, you made a considerable emotional investment in your marriage. Having seen that relationship fail can make you insecure about facing new relationships ahead. But if you take the time to go within, learn from your mistakes, understand the lessons from your marriage and determine new ways to approach future relationships, at some point you will feel ready to step back out into the dating world again. Then you face the challenge of breaking the news to your children. Be Sensitive and Empathic! Of course the age of your children will play a big part in how to talk to them about your starting to date. The rapport you have with them and closeness within your own relationship wit...

My divorce and life after divorce success story – A male’s perspective

My divorce and life after divorce success story – A male’s perspective  I am happy to take questions. Here is my divorce tale and advice to my younger self. TLDR : • Know that life after divorce will be much much better if you let it be. I wish someone would have told me this. • First few years are very very tough. Find your support, seek positive help! Avoid negative help (substance abuse), negative people (could be your friends or family). • Forgive yourself, your ex and move on. Take more losses than you need to just so you can move on. That’s what I did. Give the other person more property and more money, just for your peace of mind. Don’t lose yourself. Money can be made. Time will heal you. You are not losing anything if you have yourself. • Time heals all the wounds. This is what I experienced. 1-year max to get over it, I think for me. And 5-years to the start of a completely different life. In 10 years, you will see your previous life like someone else’s. My father told me...

Southside's Top Child Support Lawyers

 Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559