The Mehta Law 79 W. Monroe, Ste.808 Chicago, IL. 60603 312-590-2000 Divorce is the last thing on your mind when spending serious cash on a sparkly sign of DeBeers-style love. Sadly, although diamonds are a girl's best friend, many guys want to take that friend away when they decide that divorce is on the horizon. As a divorce lawyer , I am often asked whether it is possible to get the ring back. That is especially the case when the engagement ring was purchased with multiple commas! Unfortunately, the answer is likely no except in a few cases. The most typical exception is when you called off the wedding during the engagement -- but even then, it's no guarantee that you will get your ring back. In California, the courts look at the engagement ring as a promise for marriage, and if the bride fulfills the promise of marriage, it is hers free and clear. If the bride never walks down the aisle, she must return the ring because she nev...