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  Be-Do-Have: A Coparenting Model How to apply the Be-Do-Have Coparenting Model, a well-known coaching tool that helps coparents communicate with an ex-spouse. By  Melissa Kalil   Updated: November 30, 2021 Categories:  Children's and Parenting Issues after Divorce ,  Co-Parenting after Divorce There is a well known principle and coaching tool known as the Be-Do-Have coparenting model.  The Be-Do-Have model is a powerful framework that references an orientation someone has to their future success or a desired outcome.  In essence, each of the three orientations describes someone as either a victim, worker, or creator of their success.  It’s obvious which one is more empowering and, as such, I have attempted to apply this same principle to co-parenting, or  communication with an ex  in general, with the desired outcome being a peaceful and collaborative dynamic between you and your children’s other parent that benefits all. Everything You...

  Relationships Are a Two-Way Street – The Importance of Family Values Family values include all the ideas of how you want to live your family life, what behaviors you accept, what principles you honor, and the function family plays in your life. By  Taylor   Updated: November 29, 2021 Categories:  Inspirational Stories and Advice ,  Relationships and Dating How is your relationship with your family? If, like most millennials, you find ‘quality family time’ tumbling further down the priority list, then you’re not alone. While modern life leaves little time for ourselves let alone our families, it is important to carve that time out for those we love. One of the biggest challenges facing most today is the breakdown of the family unit. Add the current  coronavirus pandemic  to the mix and families are even more vulnerable to disconnect. The Importance of Family Values In multigenerational families, the younger generation has greater power to encourage th...

  Chicago IL Family Lawyers Looking for a Divorce or Family Lawyer in Chicago? The Mehta Law Group, Ltd. 121 W Wacker Dr #1404 Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 374-4559 https://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide Question: What Is the Difference Between Legal and Physical Custody of a Child in Illinois?? Answer: In a divorce, custody of a child is broken down in 2 ways: legal and physical. Legal custody means a parent is given responsibility for making important decisions about a child’s future and well being, including what school they will attend, which doctors they visit, etc. Joint legal custody allows both parents to be involved in these important choices and if they cannot agree on matters, one parent may be designated as the tie-breaker. On the other hand, physical custody is what it implies — it pertains to where children live on a regular basis. Physical custody can be shared by both parents or granted to just one. A judge will make physical and legal custody decisions based on...

  Chicago IL Family Lawyers Looking for a Divorce or Family Lawyer in Chicago? The Mehta Law Group, Ltd. 121 W Wacker Dr #1404 Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 374-4559 https://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide Question: What Is the Difference Between Legal and Physical Custody of a Child in Illinois?? Answer: In a divorce, custody of a child is broken down in 2 ways: legal and physical. Legal custody means a parent is given responsibility for making important decisions about a child’s future and well being, including what school they will attend, which doctors they visit, etc. Joint legal custody allows both parents to be involved in these important choices and if they cannot agree on matters, one parent may be designated as the tie-breaker. On the other hand, physical custody is what it implies — it pertains to where children live on a regular basis. Physical custody can be shared by both parents or granted to just one. A judge will make physical and legal custody decisions based on...

  Chicago IL Family Lawyers Looking for a Divorce or Family Lawyer in Chicago? The Mehta Law Group, Ltd. 121 W Wacker Dr #1404 Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 374-4559 https://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide Question: What Is the Difference Between Legal and Physical Custody of a Child in Illinois?? Answer: In a divorce, custody of a child is broken down in 2 ways: legal and physical. Legal custody means a parent is given responsibility for making important decisions about a child’s future and well being, including what school they will attend, which doctors they visit, etc. Joint legal custody allows both parents to be involved in these important choices and if they cannot agree on matters, one parent may be designated as the tie-breaker. On the other hand, physical custody is what it implies — it pertains to where children live on a regular basis. Physical custody can be shared by both parents or granted to just one. A judge will make physical and legal custody decisions based on...

  Making Your Home All Yours Post-Divorce After a divorce, it is a great time to fill a home with the things that make one happier and more fulfilled. These can include pieces picked up during travel, your chosen color schemes, and a stunning garden in which to unwind after a day’s work. By  Jess Walter   Updated: November 12, 2021 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Recovery ,  Life After Divorce Your home is much more than the place you come home to after a day of work or your personal spot for rest and relaxation. As stated by academics  from the University of Minnesota , your home influences your mood, impact your motivation levels, facilitates (or discourages) social interaction with family members, and increases or  reduces stress . Making Your Home All Yours Post-Divorce After a divorce, your interiors and yard can bring back memories that you wish to set aside. Giving them a new look can motivate you to  focus on the positive ...

  Tips That Can Help Start a New Life After Divorce Divorce is hard to deal with. That being said, there can be many ways to help make the process a little easier.  By  Paisley Hansen   Updated: November 17, 2021 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Recovery It’s not easy to start a new life after divorce.  Anyone who has experienced a divorce knows how difficult it can be. Not only is there a lot of  emotional  stress to deal with, but there may be lots of other kinds of stress as well due to the many life changes that you are likely to go through. While divorce may not be easy to deal with, the good news is that there are things you can do to help make the process a little easier on yourself. By taking time to take good care of yourself, you can help ensure that you recover more quickly and get back to feeling like yourself again. If you are looking for some tips to help start a new life after divorce, then here are some things to co...

  Suddenly You’re the ‘Gray’ Divorcee! Now What? You have now lived long enough to become more like yourself. So, whatever you want to do, do it! By  Maximilian Fuentes Fuhrmann, PhD/ABPP   Updated: November 18, 2021 Categories:  Gray Divorce ,  Life After Divorce Are you a gray divorcee? If you are one of those seniors who was married to the same person for decades and you recently split with your long-time partner, you may be confused about what to do next. You, like others in your situation, are likely to have a good many questions. Things to Consider if You’re a New Gray Divorcee Self-reflection is the first place to start! One of the first questions to ask yourself is why you decided to leave your spouse after all these years. Did you leave because you were interested in someone else or were you simply tired or fed up with that person?  If you were fed up, why? With what? Behaviors? Boredom? Conflict? Once you’ve answered those questions, your new situ...

  Chicago IL Family Lawyers Looking for a Divorce or Family Lawyer in Chicago? The Mehta Law Group, Ltd. 121 W Wacker Dr #1404 Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 374-4559 https://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide Question: What Is the Difference Between Legal and Physical Custody of a Child in Illinois?? Answer: In a divorce, custody of a child is broken down in 2 ways: legal and physical. Legal custody means a parent is given responsibility for making important decisions about a child’s future and well being, including what school they will attend, which doctors they visit, etc. Joint legal custody allows both parents to be involved in these important choices and if they cannot agree on matters, one parent may be designated as the tie-breaker. On the other hand, physical custody is what it implies — it pertains to where children live on a regular basis. Physical custody can be shared by both parents or granted to just one. A judge will make physical and legal custody decisions based on...

  Chicago IL Family Lawyers Looking for a Divorce or Family Lawyer in Chicago? The Mehta Law Group, Ltd. 121 W Wacker Dr #1404 Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 374-4559 https://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide Question: What Is the Difference Between Legal and Physical Custody of a Child in Illinois?? Answer: In a divorce, custody of a child is broken down in 2 ways: legal and physical. Legal custody means a parent is given responsibility for making important decisions about a child’s future and well being, including what school they will attend, which doctors they visit, etc. Joint legal custody allows both parents to be involved in these important choices and if they cannot agree on matters, one parent may be designated as the tie-breaker. On the other hand, physical custody is what it implies — it pertains to where children live on a regular basis. Physical custody can be shared by both parents or granted to just one. A judge will make physical and legal custody decisions based on...

  The Holidays are Coming: How Do You Want to Show Up for Your Kids? Imagine it’s five years from now and you are looking back at this time. Picture your children’s faces in their best moments. How do you have to be in order for them to feel relaxed and happy? By  Carla Hugo   Updated: November 09, 2021 Categories:  Children and Divorce ,  Coping with Divorce With the holidays approaching, I am reminded of the wise words of a coaching client who said, “My girls are my audience.” Because your kids are watching to see how you handle yourself, it is even more important to show them your composure. Doing so will  give them immense relief at this stressful time . Whether you are considering divorce, going through your divorce, or are complete with the process, your kids are your audience. What your children want from you  is your ability to stay calm and connected with them. Your presence of calm can be overturned by stress from legal matters, negotiations,...

  5 Hobbies to Adopt After Your Divorce After you establish a solid practice for yourself and find new hobbies after divorce, consistency in your routine can even make it easier for you to deal with stressful events that may crop up in the future long after the hardest parts of your divorce are over.  By  Paisley Hansen   Updated: November 15, 2021 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Recovery Looking for hobbies to adopt after divorce may seem like an impossible task, especially if your seems to have fallen apart. Divorce, whether it was an anticipated life event or not, can really shake up your world and leave many things upside down. The period of your life following a divorce is filled with lots of emotions and plenty of uncertainty, but also abundant opportunities for growth and change. In the midst of all the newness, it’s a good idea to take ownership of some of these life changes and do all that you can to make the most of this time of adjust...