Downsizing: Shedding A Different Kind Of Weight So You Can Rise Up After Divorce Although downsizing is a lifestyle change, I decided to look for the good in a challenging situation. My new perspective is that I am upsizing to a new, purposeful style of life that is full of hope and promise. By Donna McGoff Updated: October 28, 2022 Categories: Coping with Divorce , Divorce Recovery Rising up after divorce means facing a change in lifestyle change; and instead of it being a step-down, it becomes upsizing to a new, purposeful life you would love living. This is a true story. This is one of my ways of embracing a new beginning… I am selling my home in Rhode Island. I kiss the dark, rich wood goodbye, along with the inviting fireplace. I purge the shelves and shelves of books except for those cherished ones. I pack away the” shrines” all over the walls dedicated to my children’s accolades from high school and college. Downsizing after divorce. Downsizi...