How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over? The hardest question you may ever be faced with is “Should I stay or should I go?” If you have been unhappy for a long time, deciding whether your marriage is over may be the most difficult decision you ever make. By Melissa Kalil Updated: January 27, 2023 Categories: Considering Divorce , Preparing for Divorce The hardest question you may ever be faced with is “Should I stay or should I go?” With up to 45% of American marriages ending in divorce, this question has undoubtedly been the focus of millions of coaching and therapy sessions as unhappy individuals weigh the pros and cons. Is Your Marriage Over? While it is the most difficult decision one may face, what becomes even more toxic is the time spent in limbo. At a certain point, there are diminishing returns on the time and energy it takes to decide whether you are packing your bags or planning for retirement together. At its root, indecisiveness is ba...