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pre-divorce checklist

The SAHM pre-divorce checklist July 11, 2018 Eileen Rose If you have the luxury of knowing in advance that your marriage is about to end, you have time to make your next few weeks, months, and years a lot easier by making your way through this checklist: If possible, find a nearby trusted friend or family member who can help you. Find and collect key personal documents for you and your kids: birth certificates, passports, social security cards, your will and related documents (advance directives, power of attorney, medical power of attorney), your academic records, and give them to your trusted friend or family, or keep them in a safe place (not your house) that you will maintain control over–for example, your car, your purse (if it’s big enough and secure enough), your safety deposit box (if you have one–or consider opening one if you have time). Get a new email account. You can easily set one up for free through Gmail or Yahoo. If you share a computer with your spouse or are conc...

A Divorced Mom’s Guide to Year One Alone

A Divorced Mom’s Guide to Year One Alone If you're new here, you may want to subscribe to my  RSS feed . Thanks for visiting! Welcome friends! I am so glad to have you visiting today. This blog is filled with lots of ideas for a growing family. Sometimes I post affiliate links and, should you purchase any of the products I highlight by clicking through the links, you will be helping me to continue to create fantastic posts and helping to feed my Starbucks addiction. You can read my disclosure policy  here . Going through a divorce can be challenging, especially if there are children involved. From finding new hobbies to learning how to spend more time alone, mothers may lose a part of their identity in the process. However, going through a divorce can be a positive change if the relationship just wasn’t right. The struggles can lead to a great future where you find yourself and experience true happiness. The key is to give yourself grace in the first year and focus on yourself...

Southside's Top Divorce and Custody Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Divorce Mistakes: Things Not To Do During Divorce

Divorce Mistakes: Things Not To Do During Divorce APRIL 2024 | ED SHEA | BLOG Navigating a divorce can be both emotionally and financially challenging. It's crucial to approach it cautiously and avoid making common mistakes that can have long-lasting consequences. Here’s what to avoid during your divorce to safeguard your interests and pave the way for a brighter future. 1. Hiring an Inexperienced Divorce Attorney Choosing an inexperienced divorce attorney can be a costly mistake. Remember, they will represent you throughout the process, so carefully assess their proficiency in handling divorce cases. Your attorney should possess a thorough understanding of family law and be able to offer you clear, strategic advice to increase your chances of a successful resolution. 2. Letting Emotions Drive Decision-Making During a divorce, emotions can cloud judgment and lead to rash decisions, such as accepting an unfavorable settlement or agreeing to impulsive custody arrangements without con...

Handling Long-Distance Parenting: Tips for Noncustodial Parents

Handling Long-Distance Parenting: Tips for Noncustodial Parents JUNE 2024 | ED SHEA | BLOG As a noncustodial parent living far from your kids, maintaining a close relationship can be difficult. However, prioritizing communication and maximizing your limited in-person time can help strengthen your bond despite the distance. Keep in Touch Through All Channels Mixing up your communication channels keeps kids engaged. Make staying in contact a priority in your long-distance parenting life by: Scheduling regular video chat sessions for face-to-face conversations. Frequently exchanging texts, photos, and emails to share both big and small moments. Sending old-fashioned cards and letters to create mail excitement. Make the Most of In-Person Visits Though frequent digital connection helps, maximizing your precious in-person visits is hugely important as a long-distance parent. Make attending key milestones like birthdays, holidays, and extracurricular events a priority whenever possible. Aim f...

Chicago Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Oak Brook's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Southside's Top Child Support Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call 312-374-4559

I Wanted The Divorce, Why Am I So Sad

I Wanted The Divorce, Why Am I So Sad? Rachel Mcgill September 18, 2024 Share You initiated the divorce, expecting to feel relief or peace, but instead, you’re feeling sad, confused and possibly guilty. It’s frustrating when your emotions don’t align with the logic of your decision. You likely thought long and hard before choosing to end your marriage, so why aren’t you feeling as expected? If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. Divorce, even when initiated by you, often triggers a range of complex, unanticipated emotions. Let’s explore why these feelings arise, how societal expectations influence them and how you can cope. Deeper Emotional Conflicts Surface Post-Divorce Divorce is often portrayed as a solution to an unhappy marriage. However, the emotional impact doesn’t end when the papers are signed. In fact, initiating the divorce often brings up conflicting emotions that take many people by surprise. 1. Grieving the Life You Thought You’d Have Divorce isn’t just the en...

Depression and Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward

Depression and Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward Patty Canton September 26, 2024 Share Divorce is a major event that can deeply affect your life, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and emotionally drained. When these feelings persist or intensify, they can lead to depression, making it harder to manage life after your divorce. If you’re experiencing depression, you are not alone. This guide will walk you through recognizing the signs of divorce-related depression and offer coping strategies to help you recover and move forward. What is the Connection Between Depression and Divorce? Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship, it’s a major life transition that can impact every aspect of your emotional and psychological well-being. The stress of separating from your spouse, adjusting to a new routine, dealing with legal issues, and if you’re a parent, navigating co-parenting, can often trigger and worsen your feelings of sadness, anxiety, and hopelessness. The grieving process a...

Southside's Top Child Support Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now

What are the 3 C's of divorce?

What are the 3 C's of divorce? AI Overview The three C's of divorce are generally understood as Communication, Compromise, and Cooperation (or sometimes Custody or Co-Parenting). Applying these principles can help couples navigate divorce with less conflict, leading to mutually beneficial agreements, especially regarding children and finances. Here's a breakdown of each C: Communication: Open and effective communication is crucial for sharing information, resolving disputes, and maintaining understanding between divorcing partners. Compromise: Both parties must be willing to give a little on certain issues, such as finances or child arrangements, to reach a workable outcome. Cooperation/Custody/Co-Parenting: This involves working together to create a functional and peaceful future, particularly when children are involved. Focusing on co-parenting can help maintain a positive co-parenting relationship and prioritize the children's well-being. By embracing these ...

How to Co-Parent With A Conflictual Parent

How to Co-Parent With A Conflictual Parent By  Christina McGhee When you have to co-parent with someone who is dedicated to conflict, you can expect that just about everything related to co-parenting will be more difficult after your divorce . I hear it all the time. “Christina, how can I possibly co-parent with someone who isn’t willing to be cooperative or does everything they can to make co-parenting as hard as possible?” I get it. While many parents get along better after they part, that’s not everyone’s reality. Which is why I joined my good friend  Susan Guthrie , host of the excellent podcast,  Divorce and Beyond , to talk about the challenges a lot of parents are dealing with on the daily.  If you’d like to listen to our conversation, click the image below.  The truth is when you have a high-conflict co-parent, you can expect that just about everything related to co-parenting will be more difficult. Daily haggling over issues like scheduling, how much ti...

Nesting After Divorce

Nesting After Divorce. What Parents Need to Know Before Giving It a Try. By  Christina McGhee Nesting after divorce involves kids staying put while parents move in and out of the family home. Sometimes it’s also referred to as “birdnesting.” Initially Sarah and Miguel thought nesting sounded like a perfect solution. While there were many things they disagreed about, they were both laser-focused on the well-being of their tweens. Emotions were high. Nobody wanted to move. So, in a moment of “let’s just get through this,” they agreed:  The kids needed to stay in the house, and we’ll come and go. At first, it worked. Sort of. But as the weeks dragged on, tensions started to escalate. Sarah continued to hang on to the hope that maybe she and Miguel could save their marriage. Miguel, however, was still reeling from the sting of Sarah’s infidelity and wanted out.  It didn’t take long before old arguments started to resurface and communication became extremely strained. While th...