- Get educated and do your research on how the divorce process works;
- Learn about divorce mediation because it's a peaceful divorce option;
- Get organized financially;
- Choose an experienced and competent professional to guide you through the proceedings;
- Take responsibility and actively participate in your divorce negotiations;
- Treat divorce negotiations with your spouse like a business transaction;
- Get emotional support and learn how to lower your emotional reactivity;
- Focus on your children and don't badmouth your spouse in front of your kids;
- Stay in your integrity;
- Focus on the big picture.
10 People Who Might Not Like You When You Get Divorced BY JACKIE PILOSSOPH Founder, Divorced Girl Smiling, Former Chicago Tribune Columnist and Features Reporter, Huffington Post Blogger and TV News Reporter Don’t you feel like when you get divorced , there are two camps, and most people feel like they need to be in one? There are a few mutual friends who try to stay neutral, but then, let’s be honest, it’s just awkward. And then, at one point they get together with one of the divorcing spouses and the other spouse becomes angry and thinks their friends took a side. The sad fallout of getting divorced: you will lose some friendships. Certain people who you thought really really liked you just don’t anymore. Typically, these people are the people who were friends with your ex first. It’s strange to think that those who used to treat you with such warmth and kindness might now see you as the enemy, the devil, the bitch, the woman who ruined your ex’s life, and therefor...
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