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Understanding the Divorce Process: Choosing a Lawyer

Understanding the Divorce Process: Choosing a Lawyer By  Marlene A. Pontrelli   Updated: July 16, 2019 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Legal Issues Divorce can be a scary process.  You may never have had to go through the process of choosing a lawyer before let alone detail information about your private life.  If you decide to retain a lawyer take your time in choosing a lawyer that is right for your particular case.  Set up a consultation with the lawyer in advance to retaining him or her so you have an opportunity to ask questions and determine whether their style fits your needs.  This is a journey that you will be taking together with your attorney as they help you reach the end result.   Retaining someone who not only is competent in family law, but who you feel comfortable talking with is paramount. You will be sharing very personal details of your married life, your goals for the future, and expected outcomes.  You need to feel a connection with the person who you are entru

The Divorce Process: Step One

The Divorce Process: Step One By  Randall Kessler   Updated: October 28, 2016 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Legal Issues You have arrived at a decision: you want a divorce or you are seriously thinking about it .  Or perhaps your spouse has made that decision for you and now you are forced to think about how to protect yourself. Regardless of who initiated it, the decision to divorce is rarely a sudden one. Perhaps when you look in the mirror each morning you say to yourself, “I need to get out of this marriage. It is no longer working and it is beyond repair. I need to start a new life.” Or maybe your spouse has made that decision for the both of you. One thing is certain: we all want to stay in love forever. However, this is not always the reality. In fact, nearly 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. Nobody wants to be part of this statistic; nevertheless, when all hope for reconciliation is gone, sometimes divorce is the only avenue for recaptu

Southside's Top Child Support Lawyers

"Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...." Call Now 312-374-4559  

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

  "Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...." Call Now 312-374-4559

Will Your Ex Get Everything If You Die?

Will Your Ex Get Everything If You Die? After separation, most individuals are cautious in systematizing their finances.  Unfortunately, they are not as thorough in managing an estate plan for when they die, which indicates that a former spouse can gain more than they would have received through family court merely because the other spouse passes.  By  Marian Grande   Updated: October 07, 2022 Categories:  Considering Divorce ,  COVID & Divorce ,  Financial Issues ,  Health & Wellbeing Most of you know that the end of a marriage or common-law relationship does not automatically sever all ties between partners. After separation, most individuals are cautious in  systematizing their finances . Will Your Ex Get Everything If You Die? Unfortunately, they are not as thorough in  managing an estate plan  for when they die, which indicates that a former spouse can gain more than they would have received through family court merely because the other spouse passes. After a married or co

College Savings in Your Divorce Settlement

  College Savings in Your Divorce Settlement Don’t assume you and your spouse will split the money in the divorce, and don't assume the money will be used for your child's benefit. Make a suggestion for how you'll handle your college savings for your child. By  Ben Coltrin   Updated: October 12, 2022 Categories:  Children and Divorce ,  Financial Issues Clarifying how you’ll split the money with your spouse is an important part of finalizing your divorce, so your  divorce settlement agreement should address as many financial questions as it can, including college savings.  The agreement you propose to the court should be thorough and specific. Otherwise, the judge may make decisions for you. If you’re saving for your child to go to college Many U.S. adults who are able to save for college  choose to open a 529 account . That’s an account in a tax-advantaged investment plan known as a “529.” Each plan follows the tax rules of a U.S. state as well as federal tax rules. People

Southside's Top Child Support Lawyers

   "Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...." Call Now 312-374-4559

Chicago's Top Divorce Lawyers

  "Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...." Call Now 312-374-4559

The Breaking Point Before Divorce

The Breaking Point Before Divorce The story of the final breaking point leading to my divorce with an abusive husband. By  PhoenixRising   Updated: March 30, 2023 Categories:  Considering Divorce ,  Inspirational Stories and Advice ,  Preparing for Divorce It’s Saturday morning in October in the Northeast. The wind blowing through the open bay windows is crisp and carries hints of freshly brewed coffee from the kitchen downstairs. It’s 7 A.M. and the baby is sleeping, the house is quiet. Although I was up for several feedings though out the night, the morning is welcoming and promising of a fresh start on a new day. This is the story of my breaking point before divorce. My Breaking Point Before Divorce This Saturday begins as any normal weekend; my husband left for work at 5am, 45 minutes away in the city. He slept a peaceful 9 hours despite our daughters’ screaming outbursts throughout the night; not like he has ever gotten up to help, anyway.  I tiptoe out of my bedroom where our per

Managing Emotional Hot Buttons Can Help You Reduce Conflict: Here’s How To Do It

Managing Emotional Hot Buttons Can Help You Reduce Conflict: Here’s How To Do It If you're looking to minimize conflict and move toward compromise, anticipating the issues that will likely trigger you and your spouse / ex will help you de-escalate the situation.  By  Andra Davidson   Updated: April 07, 2023 Categories:  Children's and Parenting Issues after Divorce ,  Co-Parenting after Divorce ,  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Process ,  Divorce Recovery Reducing Emotional Hot Buttons What is a Hot Button? According to Merriam-Webster, a  Hot Button is an emotional or controversial issue  or concern that triggers an immediate, intense reaction. Managing them can have a significant positive impact on the process and outcome of divorce. Blame it on our Lizard Brain Our “Lizard Brain” is the ancient survival mechanism that manages our fight/flight response when our ego, image, or self-esteem is threatened. When this part of the brain kicks in our reflexive response is usually to

Divorce and the Power of Social Media

Divorce and the Power of Social Media The reality is that divorce is tough enough without having the immediacy of social media outlets being some kind of a “go-to” for you to purge your frustrations and heartbreak. By  Michelle Moore, PhD   Updated: April 05, 2023 Categories:  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Recovery ,  Legal Issues Oftentimes people turn to their social media platforms as a mode of informing and communicating every thought, usually, at the moment the thoughts occur. This can be a slippery slope when you are in the middle of a divorce. Your emotions may be heightened  and a social media site may feel like the perfect place to throw an icy comment about your soon-to-be ex-spouse. The reality is that divorce is tough enough without having the immediacy of social media outlets being some kind of a “go-to” for you to purge your frustrations and heartbreak. The consequence is then having to deal with the cost of that outburst, both emotionally and possibly financially. The C

Southside's Top Rated Child Support Lawyers

  https://mlglawgroupillinois.com/ Mehta Law Group: Your Chicago Family Law Experts At Mehta Law Group, we understand that family law matters are often complex and emotionally charged. Our experienced attorneys are dedicated to providing compassionate and effective legal representation to clients in the Chicago area. We specialize in a wide range of family law matters, including: Divorce: We can guide you through the entire divorce process, from initial filing to property division and child custody arrangements. Child Custody: We will advocate for your parental rights and help you create a custody agreement that is in the best interests of your children. Child Support: We can help you determine the appropriate amount of child support and enforce existing orders. Spousal Maintenance: We can negotiate fair spousal maintenance agreements and represent you in court if necessary. Paternity: We can help you establish paternity and secure child support orders. Prenuptial Agreements: We can

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

  https://mlglawgroupillinois.com/ Mehta Law Group: Your Chicago Family Law Experts At Mehta Law Group, we understand that family law matters are often complex and emotionally charged. Our experienced attorneys are dedicated to providing compassionate and effective legal representation to clients in the Chicago area. We specialize in a wide range of family law matters, including: Divorce: We can guide you through the entire divorce process, from initial filing to property division and child custody arrangements. Child Custody: We will advocate for your parental rights and help you create a custody agreement that is in the best interests of your children. Child Support: We can help you determine the appropriate amount of child support and enforce existing orders. Spousal Maintenance: We can negotiate fair spousal maintenance agreements and represent you in court if necessary. Paternity: We can help you establish paternity and secure child support orders. Prenuptial Agreements: We can

DuPage County's Best Divorce Lawyers

  MLG LAW GROUP 121 West Wacker Drive Suite 1404 Chicago, IL. 60601 http://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide How do you prove a parent unfit in Illinois? How do I prove the other parent is unfit? Abandonment. Habitual substance abuse problems. Physical or emotional abuse. Mental illness or instability. Putting the children in an unsafe living environment. Being incarcerated. Not being interested in the children's welfare. Neglect.

Southside's Best Child Support Lawyers

  MLG LAW GROUP 121 West Wacker Drive Suite 1404 Chicago, IL. 60601 http://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide How do you prove a parent unfit in Illinois? How do I prove the other parent is unfit? Abandonment. Habitual substance abuse problems. Physical or emotional abuse. Mental illness or instability. Putting the children in an unsafe living environment. Being incarcerated. Not being interested in the children's welfare. Neglect.

Chicago Best Divorce Lawyers

  MLG LAW GROUP 121 West Wacker Drive Suite 1404 Chicago, IL. 60601 http://www.mlglawgroupillinois.com/ #letsguide How do you prove a parent unfit in Illinois? How do I prove the other parent is unfit? Abandonment. Habitual substance abuse problems. Physical or emotional abuse. Mental illness or instability. Putting the children in an unsafe living environment. Being incarcerated. Not being interested in the children's welfare. Neglect.

Starting Fresh: Rebuilding Relationships Post-Divorce

Starting Fresh: Rebuilding Relationships Post-Divorce While taking time to heal and reflect, focus on working on yourself. Take care of your physical and emotional health, build your self-confidence, and pursue your passions and interests. By  Alistair Vigier   Updated: February 28, 2023 Categories:  Considering Divorce ,  Coping with Divorce ,  Divorce Process ,  Preparing for Divorce ,  Relationships and Dating Divorce can be a difficult and emotionally taxing experience, leaving one feeling lost and unsure of how to start anew.  Rebuilding relationships post-divorce can be hard. The idea of building relationships after divorce can be overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that it is possible to form healthy connections again.  Here are some tips and strategies to help rebuild relationships after divorce. Healing from the past is essential before starting any new relationships. Divorce can be a traumatic experience, and it’s important to take time to grieve, process your emotio