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My Ex Is Getting Married And It Hurts Like Hell. How To Handle It

  My Ex Is Getting Married And It Hurts Like Hell. How To Handle It BY JACKIE PILOSSOPH Founder, Divorced Girl Smiling, Former Chicago Tribune Columnist and Features Reporter, Huffington Post Blogger and TV News Reporter My ex is getting married and it hurts like hell!! That’s what I wanted to shout several years ago when I found out my ex was engaged. Not because I wanted to get back together with him, but because of  many other emotions  stirring around in my head. I don’t care how much time has gone by or how long a person has been divorced, when you find out your ex is getting married, not only does it hurt, but it is a true shocker, and there are many feelings associated with it, including the feeling of injustice–like unfairness. There is also  anger, bitterness, and jealousy –why does he get the happy ending and I don’t? And, an evaluation/reflection of your own life and what might not be working. I’ll never forget where I was when I found out my ex was gettin...

My Ex Moved On Immediately

  GETTING DIVORCED   •   May 29, 2025 My Ex Moved On Immediately: 3 Seconds After We Got Separated In Fact BY JACKIE PILOSSOPH Founder, Divorced Girl Smiling, Former Chicago Tribune Columnist and Features Reporter, Huffington Post Blogger and TV News Reporter There are many heartbreaks that happen during  a divorce.  The first heartbreak occurs during that gut-wrenching moment you know you are  getting divorced : either you both realize the best option for you as a couple is to split, or your ex blindsides you with a conversation that starts with, “Honey, we need to talk,” and then tells you he/she wants  a divorce , or you’re the one who knows you need to leave. But there’s another major heartbreak that I hear so often from divorced people: “My ex moved on immediately; 3 seconds after getting separated, in fact.”     Women do it too, but I cannot count the number of calls and emails I get from women, where the conversation starts out, “You a...

Skokie's and Northshore's Top Rated Divorce and Family Lawyers

Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...... Call Now 312-374-4559  

Southside Top Rated Child Support Lawyers

  Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...... Call Now 312-374-4559  

Chicago's Top Rated Divorce Lawyers

  Chicago Illinois Divorce and Family Law, Mehta Family Law Group of Chicago. The Mehta Law Group is one of Chicago’s premier law firms. Our team of lawyers and staff are here to serve you and to help you build a better future for yourself and your family. We represent individuals, families, and children in every aspect of the legal process from beginning to end. Our attorneys bring with them over 30 years of combined experience, we are professional, and treat every individual with the respect they deserve. We are hardworking and don’t back down, our goals is always to advocate for our clients, to ensure a positive end result... Call Chicago IL Divorce Lawyers Now...... Call Now 312-374-4559  

Understanding High Net Worth Divorce

Understanding High Net Worth Divorce BY ODALO OKIKU Divorce Attorney, Founder, Ohiku Law Office, Divorced Girl Smiling Trusted Professional Divorce is rarely simple , but when significant assets and wealth enter the equation, the complexity increases exponentially. High net worth divorce comes with unique challenges, and wealth preservation becomes a key focus for individuals going through this difficult phase. Learn more about the critical considerations to keep in mind when navigating a high net worth divorce. 1. Understanding the Complexities of a High Net Worth Divorce High net worth divorces often involve more than just splitting a bank account or deciding who keeps the family car. These cases commonly include multi-million-dollar properties, business interests, investment portfolios, retirement accounts, and even luxury items like yachts or art collections. There’s also the challenge of ensuring confidentiality and preventing adverse publicity, which can be a significant concern ...

Divorce isn’t just something to survive. It’s something that can set you free

Divorce isn’t just something to survive. It’s something that can set you free. The Neuroscience of New Beginnings Here’s the first revelation that changes everything: Your brain is literally designed to help you rebuild after trauma. Dr. Melanie Greenberg’s research shows that novel experiences trigger cascades of neurotransmitters that create new neural pathways, providing alternate routes around your brain’s pain centers toward possibility. This isn’t just feel-good psychology. It’s hard science. Every new experience you embrace after divorce isn’t just a distraction. It’s a reconstruction. You’re literally rewiring your brain for resilience and joy. Consider my own story. Before my divorce, completing a triathlon seemed laughable. But when my life cracked open and everything familiar fell away, I became curious about what else might be possible. Training didn’t just reshape my body; it transformed my mind. Each early-morning run taught me that discipline isn’t punishment but devotio...